Max’s over-familiarity with his patients is based on a series of recurring boundary crossings that has led to boundary violations becoming an established part of his clinical practice approach. After practicing like this for 10 years, it is unlikely that Max can objectively reflect and assess his behaviour. He may regard his behaviour and level of familiarity with his patients as normal. His patients may feel the same.
Max’s behaviour though is inappropriate. It represents boundary violations and could possibly be considered sexual abuse. The legal definition of sexual abuse includes touching of a sexual nature. If any of Max’s instances of touching are sexual in nature, then Max’s conduct would be considered sexual abuse.
Being in a small community with limited health care providers, most of his patients likely never had another nurse practitioner and don’t know that his decision to hug patients may violate appropriate boundaries.
Mary’s arrival brought fresh eyes that saw Max’s behaviour for what it was: a boundary violation. She did the right thing by reporting his behaviour. By doing so, CNO can investigate and determine how best to respond. Depending on the circumstances, CNO’s action may result in a breach of CNO’s practice standards, such as the Therapeutic Nurse-Client Relationship, or a referral to the Discipline Committee on the basis of disgraceful, dishonourable or unprofessional conduct and/or sexual abuse.
It is understandable that Max’s other patients may not understand why his behaviour is wrong, but regardless of whether his patients approve or not, Max’s behaviour is inappropriate.